Facebook & The Charitable Deceptions Of Nostalgia

by Ryan Calo, posted on February 23, 2009 - 10:57pm

Facebook trends proceed at a spooky (in the quantum sense) pace. It took the New York Times all of a week to pick up on 25 Random Things. I’ve noticed a subtler trend lately, one that is perhaps a more obvious sign of the times. The nostalgic photo album.

It seems that every time I open my account I have been tagged in a new photo from the late 80s or early 90s. I click the link and there I am again in a black and red flannel. And this trend knows no boundaries. I grew up in Italy and was tagged in a group photo from scuola elementare. You can see me in the back row, white shirt tucked into blue sweat pants, followed by two dozen comments along the lines of “che tremendo” or “dai, troppo forte!”

Where is this global flood of nostalgia coming from? I think my generation is finally scared. I think we’re looking at two wars and a bad economy and remembering when Smashing Pumpkins came out and cruelty could still be confused with flirtation. As outlets go, however, I’d say this is fairly healthy. After a historic but short-lived unity, the post-911 Bush years brought ugliness—we saw increased interracial violence and a spike in sales at the box office for horror movies as we tried to muddle through the trauma. I’m fine with a trip down memory lane. We could use, to borrow from Gabriel Garcia Marquez, some charitable deceptions of nostalgia.

Comment by Mark Johanson (not verified), posted February 24, 2009 - 7:28am

For me facebook is nostalgic. I found 2 friend which I didn't see for 10 years.That was like miracle. One live in Scandinavia and another in Australia. The world becoming so small with services like this.
Cheers

Comment by betclic (not verified), posted February 26, 2009 - 1:18am

nostalgia ? why not, I think it's some good remembers. But in Facebook I hate when i am tagged on a pics because all my contacts can see this pics, and my curently situation is different that my nostalgia situation...

See you Betclic

Comment by Roger (not verified), posted February 26, 2009 - 7:28am

I found a friend of over twenty years with Facebook.
He settled for several years in Vietnam where he operates a farm marine about lobsters. He had to leave in a distant country because in our country (France), the authorities told him it was now impossible to open such an activity, the French coast no longer used for marine farms...
All is running away, time crashes our childhood memories and your picture reminds me of my younger years, thank you for this moment.

Greetings from Paris
Roger

Comment by Chilipoker (not verified), posted May 5, 2009 - 6:47am

Great

Comment by Mr. Best (not verified), posted March 27, 2009 - 5:51am

True, Facebook is more of a tagging war then anything else in my opinion. I have the impression females are more likely to use it as a photo library too.

Comment by beurettes levrettes (not verified), posted April 5, 2009 - 5:00pm

Facebook is your friend ... Good friend I don't know

Comment by Unibet (not verified), posted May 1, 2009 - 12:07pm

Very nice Facebook, is you Great freind.
Thanks
unibet

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